Somebody Help Me! We’re Having a Wedding!
John and I have known for four and a half months that Dan was going to propose to
“Mr. John,” (So Southern!) “Since we’re alone right now I
wanted to tell…I mean ask you if it’s ok with you if I ask Brittany to marry me?”
John: “Oh, thank goodness!”
OK, just kidding, what he really said was something like,
“Well we just want her to be happy.”
Dan told him he already had her ring, but wanted to wait
until the end of summer to ask her because he had a lot going on at work right
then, so “mums the word”.
John thought that meant he wasn’t supposed to tell me! (Can
you believe that?) But something he said a week later made me ask if they had
had that conversation and John admitted they had. So then it became my burden not to say anything to Brittany about it
either.
To make it a little easier I told a few close friends and
family members.
Alright, and some random people on the street….
I spent the summer bouncing back and forth between hoping
his proposal would live up to her dreams and also worrying about the upcoming wedding
to plan.
Tonight Brittany
called and said that Dan had bought their two dogs new collars and had them
stationed at the door when she came home from work. One collar said “Will you
marry” and the other “Dat Daddy”. Dan was on his knees by the couch.
What he hadn’t taken into account was the phone conversation
they had while she was driving home. She had missed lunch and wanted to meet
him at a restaurant. He of course couldn’t tell her why he wanted her to come
home first or that he already had reservations at Cypress
in downtown Charleston .
So what happened was; Brittany
walked by the dogs without seeing the collars, thought Dan was looking for
something under the couch, but since she was mad wasn’t going to ask him what
he had lost, and went into the kitchen.
Luckily he got her to see the collars, got the ring on her
finger and got her to the Cypress ,
which led to dozens of phone calls and hundreds of Facebook messages. The
proposal lived up to her dreams!
Now all I have to worry about is planning the wedding!
Labels: adult children, empty nest, engagement, helicopter parents, parenting